If you can remember how your relationship started, and keep an account of how you used to treat one another during those loving days, then you’ll easily grasp this concept and make your wife love you more than you can imagine. Yes! You have the magical power to transform your ailing marriage.
You’ve got to ferret out the forces (words) that work against your relationship and use the language that is value adding. Force number one you must drop is;
#1. Usage of Harsh and negative words
All relationships begin with words and mostly sweet words. The truth is, when you were commencing your love life, it was filled with many welcoming and soul-lifting words. You used to tell her things like, “you are my one and only sun in the universe” I don’t sleep thinking of you, I feel like going bananas when I don’t see you” ha ha ha… And so on.
Yes, in fact, there is a possibility that you even invented all kind of appraisals just to make sure you occupy her heart and mind. You won! Isn’t it? And that’s why you are with her today. BUT… Do you still want to remain a winner or you to lose her?. It’s true you won her over, BUT it’s not yet OVER.
You have to keep winning her over with your words since you’ve not gone dump. SO STOP and drop the use of harsh and negative words. You can correct your wife in a polite manner! Power number one you must drop is;
#2.Stop Controlling everything
One thing that you must understand is, your wife may never perfectly do what you want in life. Okay, there is a manner that you want her to live, but remember that this is a human being with its own brain, behaviors, and lifestyle. I don’t mean that you completely leave things to go the way they want, No. I mean, keep on requesting how you want things to go but don’t reprimand when they don’t.
You ought to enjoy the fact that your partner is not a robot and that she has willingly decided to live with you.